Going through a divorce is tough, and it is even harder when domestic violence is involved. If this sounds like your situation, it is vital to keep thorough records to protect your rights and ensure your safety.
Here’s what you should know about documentation when divorcing an abuser.
How records play a significant role
In California, if there’s evidence of abuse, it can greatly affect the outcome of divorce proceedings. California laws define domestic violence as physical or sexual assault or threats that make someone fear for their immediate safety. Keeping detailed records of these incidents can help in several ways:
- It can influence decisions about child custody.
- It may impact orders for spousal support.
- It can assist in obtaining restraining orders to protect you and your children.
How can you obtain records of these acts?
Identifying and recording incidents of abuse
Start by chronicling every incident of abuse, no matter how minor it may seem:
- Dates and times of each incident
- Detailed descriptions of what occurred
- Injuries sustained and medical reports if available
- Witnesses, if any, and their contact information
- Police reports or any legal interventions that occurred
While documenting abuse, consider seeking support from professionals who can help you understand your rights under the law and develop strategies that are in your best interests.
Support is available
Divorcing an abuser requires courage and meticulous preparation. By documenting each incident of abuse and understanding its legal implications under California law, you can protect yourself and your future. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources and professionals ready to help you through this process.